“I say always listen to your beeps.”—Necie in The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
I have spent my life seeking higher guidance. My favorite joke used to be, “Why doesn’t God work in neon?”
I finally learned that God or the universe or whatever name you want to call the Divine Buzz does indeed work in neon. It’s called joy. Or as Joseph Campbell instructed, “Follow your bliss.”
If you want higher guidance, start moving towards what makes you happy. Kids know this. They automatically seek out things that bring joy.
…their parents and their culture and the dominant paradigm insist “You can’t do that. You have to protect yourself. You have to be safe.”
I’m reading Pat Conroy’s memoir, The Death of Santini. He remembers very clearly that his dad, who was a notorious disciplinarian (read: bully), would react the most violently anytime his children were having fun. It’s as if he was saying, “Cut that out. Fun is not allowed.”
Even though most of our parents weren’t bullies, they certainly didn’t tell us that the things we’re drawn towards, the things that bring us joy are God’s guidance in bright, crystal clear neon.
Pam Grout is the author of 17 books including E-Squared: 9 Do-it-Yourself Energy Experiments that Prove Your Thoughts Create Your Reality and the soon-to-be-released sequel, E-Cubed, 9 More Experiments that Prove Mirth, Magic and Merriment is your Full-time Gig.